If you’ve fallen for a player, I’m sure you’re hoping you can change him.
The good news is that while it’s not going to be easy, you certainly can win the heart of a player and have him all to yourself.
If you’re doing everything right you should start to see the signs that he’s falling for you.
If you’re not sure what to look for, here are 15 signs a player is falling for you:
15 Signs a Player Is Falling For You
1. He’s Spending More and More Time with You
This is a classic sign that any guy likes you, but in the case of a player it’s an even bigger sign that he’s falling for you.
Players like having a lot of freedom to be able to do whatever they want and don’t like to be tied down to one woman.
So if he’s suddenly spending more time with you than he used to, and certainly more than other women, his playing days might be numbered!
2. He’s Contacting You a Lot When You’re Apart
I’m sure you’re aware that a player is typically up to no good when they’re not with you.
It means that he’s more invested in you than any other girls, and is a pretty sure sign that he’s falling for you if he hasn’t already.
3. He’s Jealous at The Idea of You Hanging out With Other Guys
Jealousy is also a classic sign that a guy is falling for you, and it’s certainly not what you would expect from a player.
But if he’s started to get jealous at the idea of you hanging out with other guys or even talking to them, it means he cares about you and doesn’t want to share you with anyone else.
Jealousy can be pretty ugly, but it’s also a sign of love. So as long as he’s not acting out of order it’s a good thing.
4. He’s Been Opening up About His Feelings
This is a big one. Players tend to be quite guarded about their feelings and past, because they don’t want anyone to get too close to one girl.
So, if he’s started to open up about his feelings to you and is sharing things that he wouldn’t share with just anyone, it means he trusts you and is definitely falling for you.
It takes a lot for a player to let his guard down, so this is a massive sign that he’s into you.
5. He Talks About the Future with You
Another big sign that a player is falling for you is if he starts talking about the future with you.
I’m not just talking about the future in general terms, but specifically mentioning things like marriage, kids, moving in together, etc.
Players don’t tend to think about the future too much, they live in the moment and are busy juggling their meetups!
So, if he’s started making plans with you it means he’s definitely fallen for you and sees a future with you.
6. He Tells You You’re ‘Different’ From Other Girls
If a player is telling you that you’re different from other girls, it’s a good sign.
It means he’s noticed that you’re not like the other women he’s been with and that you stand out to him in a good way.
It’s a sign that he’s attracted to you and that he’s falling for you.
Of course, it’s possible that he could just be saying this to keep you around, so don’t get too excited until you see some of the other signs on this list!
7. He Invites You Around His House
Most players like to keep their partners away from their house as a way of keeping their lives private.
This means that if a player is inviting you around his house, you’re definitely doing something right to crack that line of defense.
It’s a sign that he trusts you and is starting to let you into his life, which is a pretty good indication that he’s falling for you.
8. He’s Been Saying He Regrets Playing Around
If a player has been saying that he regrets playing around and wants to settle down with one girl – you -, I think you know this is a huge step for you both.
Most players will grow up and stop messing around at some point, but make no mistake that this is a huge deal.
You’ve been doing something right to win him over!
9. He’s Open About Seeing You on Social Media
When a guy is open about seeing you on social media, it means he’s proud to be with you and wants the world to know it.
It’s a sign that he’s serious about you and is falling for you.
Players tend to be pretty private when it comes to their social media, so if he’s started sharing pictures of you it means he’s really into you.
10. He’s Become More Interested in You as A Person
If he’s started to become more interested in you as a person, it means he’s not just seeing you as a conquest anymore.
He’s genuinely interested in your life and what’s going on with you, which is a sign that he cares about you.
Players tend to focus on the physical aspects of a relationship, but if he’s started to care about your mental and emotional wellbeing then it’s a sign that you’re special to him.
11. He’s Willing to Drop Other Plans to See You
If a guy is willing to drop other plans to see you, it means he’s prioritizing you over everything else in his life – and possibly other girls.
It’s another strong sign that he’s serious about you and is falling for you.
It’s almost like you’re becoming a serious couple, isn’t it!
12. He’s Introducing You to People Who Are Important to Him
Along with being invited to his house, if he’s started to introduce you to people who are important to him, it means he’s comfortable with being a part of his life.
It can be a big step for some guys, so if he’s introduced you to his friends and family it means he’s definitely falling for you.
13. He’s Not Letting You Down Like He Used To
If this guy used to let you down, that’s perfectly normal when you’re dating or seeing a player.
But if you’ve noticed that he’s changed over time and no longer flakes on you or cancels plans, it means he’s definitely falling for you.
It means he’s starting to respect you and doesn’t want to disappoint you, which is a great sign!
14. He’s Told You He’s Falling for You
This is the most obvious sign a guy is falling for you, but you do have to take it with a pinch of salt at times when it comes from a player.
But if you’ve noticed some of the other signs on this list and the guy has also said it outright, then there’s a good chance he means it.
It can be a scary thing to say, but if he’s said it then it’s likely he’s feeling it.
15. You Can Feel It!
This is one sign that you can’t see or touch, but might be the strongest sign of all.
If you’ve fallen for someone or had someone fall for you before, you’ll know what I’m talking about, it’s an energy that’s present when you’re around someone.
It’s a special feeling and if you’re getting it from a guy, then it’s likely he’s feeling it too and is falling for you.
If you’re seeing any of these signs from a guy, then it’s likely he’s falling for you. Seeing a player change his ways and fall for someone – like you – is a crazy thing, enjoy it!
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Phil lives in England, UK, and has around 20 years experience as a professional life, career and executive coach. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future.