It can be tough to tell when or if a girl likes you, and I mean really likes you.
It’s one of the most anxiety-inducing parts of dating, especially if you really really like her.
There are always body language cues and things she’ll say if she likes you though, you just need to know what you’re looking for.
To help you out, here are some of the questions a girl asks when she likes you to pay attention to:
10 Questions a Girl Asks When She Likes You
1. “Are You in A Relationship?”
This question isn’t always a sign that a girl likes a guy, but a lot of the time it is or it’s at least a feeler ‘just in case’.
You have to ask yourself this; if you don’t know this girl well, why should you be interested in whether or not you’re single?
If you like her, I’d use this question as a lead-in to finding out more about her – unless that is, you’re in a relationship!
2. “What Kind of Things Do You Do for Fun?”
This is another classic tell-tale sign that a girl likes you.
If she’s interested in getting to know what makes you tick, then this question should be a dead giveaway!
It sounds like she’s looking for common interests, and may even respond that she likes doing some of the same things as you do.
If she does, that sounds like the door is open to ask her to hang out!
3. “Can We Meet up And Hang Out Sometime?”
This is a pretty direct question that she’s totally interested in getting to know you better.
It means she wants to spend time with you and most likely see where things could go romantically.
If a girl you like asks you to hang out, I’d cancel all plans and make it happen!
If she also reaches over and makes physical contact in some way, like touching your arm or leg, what are you waiting for?
4. “Can I Tell You Something?”
This is a big one, if a girl asks you this it means she feels comfortable enough and trusts you to share whatever secret or feeling she may have.
She may not tell you anything big or lead you to believe she’s interested, but this is one of the things girls do as a way of building trust.
How you respond is important, so make sure you tell her that she can tell you anything, no matter how big or small.
5. “Can You Help Me Out With Something?”
This is a tricky one. It could mean that she just wants someone to help her out with a problem, but it could also be an invitation to get to know each other better.
If the ask has nothing to do with you and she could have asked anyone, then it sounds like she’s using it as an excuse to get to know you better.
If you like her, let her know that you’re her knight in shining armor and willing to help in any way you can!
Try these quizzes!
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6. “Are You Busy This Weekend?”
This is another way a girl – or a guy – will ask someone out without actually asking them out and risking being rejected.
By casually asking if you’re busy at the weekend, she’s trying to find out if you’re free to meet up – or hoping that you’ll ask her the same question back.
Of course, it could just be that she is interested in what plans you have.
There’s no harm in asking her back and if she says she’s free, why not ask to hang out?
7. “Can I Have Your Instagram?”
This is almost code these days for letting someone know that you’re interested in them romantically.
By asking for someone’s Instagram, you’re setting up a way to communicate with them directly while finding out loads about their lives (if they use Instagram).
If a girl you like asks for your Instagram, then it’s fair to think that she’s interested in you and wants to get to know you better.
8. “What Do You Look for In a Girlfriend?”
A girl might ask this if she’s interested in you, but wants to make sure that she is the kind of girl that you’re looking for.
If you’re trying to impress her, you better describe a woman that looks and acts exactly like she does!
9. “Can You Tell Me Something Interesting About Yourself that Not Many People Know?”
This is another of those questions that could be classified as flirting, it’s hard to tell without having some more context about how it was asked.
One thing I do know is that this question does set you up to answer it in a way that lets her know you’re interested in her.
You could say that you have a crush on someone close, or even that you like her – it’s one of those fun questions that you can use to your advantage.
10. “So, Why Is Someone Like You Single?”
This is a question you want to hear from a girl you like!
Not only is she double-checking that you’re single, but she’s also letting you know that she thinks you’re a catch and is surprised that you’re single.
This is a flirty question for sure, and a perfect opportunity for you to ask her why she’s single and compliment her back.
If you’ve had a girl ask you this question and it didn’t lead to the two of you at least going out and seeing how you get on, there had to have been a good excuse!
Sources we used to verify the information in this article:
Gentleman’s Journal – 8 signs she’s attracted to you, according to science
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Phil lives in England, UK, and has around 20 years experience as a professional life, career and executive coach. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future.