Phil Ashton

Should I meet my ex-husband’s girlfriend or avoid the potentially awkward situation? That’s a question a lot of women ask themselves – or someone else – when their ex-husband is in a new relationship. There is no right or wrong answer, it depends on your situation – but I can help prepare you with some […]

How often should married couples go out separately? There is no one answer to this question that will suit all couples. But what I can tell you is that it’s healthy for couples to have their own friends, and to go out separately. This can cause problems, however, if one or both parties in a

Stonewalling is when someone refuses to talk to you or is very evasive when you’re talking to them. It’s incredibly frustrating. If your partner is always stonewalling you, it’s likely they’re either hiding something or has some emotional issues. How you deal with stonewalling can literally be a make-or-break situation for your relationship. Here are

Is hiding current relationship from an ex a good – or the right – thing to do for either you or your ex? In some situations, it may be. However, when someone wants to hide their new relationship from their ex, it usually means they still like their ex in some form. If you want

Need to know how to comfort your girlfriend over text message? If they’re going through a tough time, it can be hard to know what to say over text. But saying the right things can make a world of difference to her, so it’s worth taking the time to choose the right words. Here is

It can be difficult enough knowing if a guy is attracted to you – but it’s almost impossible when a guy is really shy. Unless you know what subtle signs and body language cues shy guys give off, that is! If you think a guy likes you but is really shy, to help you out

There is nothing worse than seeing another woman push her way into your relationship. It takes two to tango, so I’m sure your boyfriend or husband is just as much to blame. But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t fight for him and can’t win him back if you want your relationship to work. You just

If you’ve found out your husband or someone you know has a mistress, you might try and understand how he’s thinking and why he’s cheating. One of the most commonly asked questions is, ‘how often does a married man think about his mistress?’ Does it consume their every moment? Do married guys think about their

Some girls will tell you, ‘my boyfriend is not masculine enough’. But what does that really mean, and why does it matter or have an impact on their relationship? If your boyfriend has feminine mannerisms and is not as masculine as you’d like, you might have to just accept that’s how he is. Here is

Friends – good friends – are important, so if you’re spotting signs your friends don’t care about you it’s going to hurt. It’s not a good idea to jump to conclusions though, sometimes people are just a little preoccupied or not being a good friend for one reason or another. However, if you want to