If you’re wondering; how to know if my crush is thinking about me?
You’re not alone.
Always everyone with a crush wants to know that their crush thinks about them, or at the very least notices them.
In this article, I’m going to explain some of the ways you can tell that your crush thinks about you.
Some of these signs are obvious, and some are more intrinsic or psychic!
16 Ways You Can Tell That Your Crush Is Thinking About You!
Here are some of the visual or more ‘obvious’ signs that your crush thinks about you:
1. You Catch Them Glancing at You
One of the most common and tell-tale signs that someone is thinking about you is if you catch them stealing glances at you when they think you’re not looking.
This usually happens when the person is daydreaming or lost in thought and then they realize that they’re staring and quickly look away.
If this keeps happening, it’s a good sign that they’re thinking about you – and even better, most likely like you.
2. They Start Conversations With You
Another sign that someone is thinking about you and likes you is if they make an effort to start conversations with you.
This could be coming up to you and asking how your day is going, or making small talk about the weather or something else.
If they didn’t think about you, they wouldn’t bother trying to make conversation!
3. They Ask Other People About You
If someone is thinking about you, they’ll probably want to know more about you and will ask other people about you.
This could be as simple as asking your mutual friend how you’re doing, or what kind of person you are.
Or, they might go one step further and do some ‘research’ by looking you up online or asking people to probe information from you.
4. They Ask You Personal Questions
If someone is thinking about you, they’ll want to get to know you better and will start to ask you personal questions.
This could be anything from what your favorite food is, to what kind of music you like, or what your hobbies are.
By asking these kinds of questions, they’re trying to find out more about you and satisfy some of the things they’re thinking about.
5. They Remember Little Things About You
When someone is thinking about you and keeping you in mind, they’ll start to remember the little things you’ve said or done.
This could be something as small as remembering that you like a certain type of coffee, or that you’re afraid of spiders.
It might not seem like much, but it shows that they’ve been paying attention and are thinking about you!
6. They Always Have Time for You
If someone is thinking about you, they’ll always make time for you – even if they’re busy!
This could be anything from taking the time to check-in and see how you’re doing, to replying to your texts and messages right away.
It might not seem like a big deal, but it shows that you’re on their mind and they are more than noticing you.
7. They Laugh and Smile When Talking With You
It feels great when someone – especially your crush – laughs, smiles and is happy to be around you, right?
I bet you’re only happy when you’re around people you care about and think about.
The same applies to your crush, these are emotions that come to the forefront around people we like.
8. They Ask For Your Help
If someone is thinking about you, they’ll ask for your help.
This could be anything from asking for advice on something, to help with a project or task they’re working on.
If they were not thinking about you, you wouldn’t come to mind when they were considering who they should ask for help!
Spiritual and Psychic Signs Your Crush Is Thinking About You
Here are some of the more spiritual and psychic feelings and signs that your crush thinks about you:
9. You Hear Their Voice When They’re Not Around
If you keep hearing your crush’s voice when they’re not around, it could be a sign that they are thinking about you.
This is usually a sign from your intuition or higher self trying to give you a message.
Try and pay attention to what the voice is saying as it could have some important information for you!
10. You Can Sense That They’re Thinking About You
If you have a strong feeling or sense that your crush is thinking about you, then chances are they are!
This is your psychic ability at work, so trust your gut on this one.
11. You See Them in Your Dreams
Dreams are a great way for our subconscious mind to communicate with us.
If you keep seeing your crush in your dreams, it could be a sign that they are thinking about you.
Spend some time recalling your dreams so they become clearer, it’s definitely a sign that you’re picking up positive energy from your crush.
12. It Feels Like They’re Present When They’re Not
If you ever feel like your crush is around you even when they’re not, it could be a sign that they are thinking about you.
This is called Claircognizance, which is a form of psychic ability where we can sense the presence of someone even when they’re not physically around us.
13. You Feel Their Energy in the Room
Another sign of Claircognizance is feeling someone’s energy in the room.
If you ever feel like your crush is around you, even when they’re not, it could be a sign that they are thinking about you.
You can stop what you’re doing, but if you try to concentrate on the feeling you’ll notice it disappears – just absorb it without focusing on it.
14. You See or Hear Them While Meditating
I recommend meditation for a wide range of reasons, and one of those reasons is connecting with your crush on a spiritual level.
If you see or hear your crush while meditating, it’s a sign that they are thinking about you and you have a powerful, subconscious connection.
15. You Don’t Feel Lonely Any Longer
When you’re thinking about someone or they’re thinking about you, it’s impossible to feel lonely.
This is because you feel a strong connection with the other person, even if they’re not physically around you.
If you suddenly don’t feel lonely anymore, it could be a sign that your crush is thinking about you!
16. You Get the Feeling of Déjà VU Around Them
Déjà vu is a feeling of familiarity, and it’s also a sign that you’ve connected with someone on a spiritual level.
If you keep getting déjà vu around your crush, it means that they are thinking about you and you have a strong connection.
It’s another one of those things that you can’t put your finger on and explain, but it’s very real.
How many of the signs, either literal or spiritual from the list above did you check off as you were going through them?
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Phil lives in England, UK, and has around 20 years experience as a professional life, career and executive coach. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future.