If you’re interested in an Aries woman, you’ll know how confident, independent, and assertive Aries women can be.
This often makes it hard to know how serious an Aries woman is though, and there is a thin line between being independent and playing you!
To help you out here is how to know if an Aries woman is playing you with 15 signs to look out for:
How to Know if Aries Woman Is Playing You – 15 Signs!
1. She Never Initiates Conversations
If an Aries woman never makes the effort to initiate conversations or is always too busy to reply, this could be a sign that she’s not interested and is playing you.
If she’s not being proactive about seeing you and starting conversations, it’s certainly not a good sign.
Keep in mind that Aries women are independent and confident, they won’t struggle to take the lead when they want something.
2. You Can’t Get Straight Answers Out Of Her
Another sign that shows an Aries woman might be playing you, or at least not be that interested, is when she won’t give you a straight answer.
Aries women are known for being straightforward and direct, so if she’s always evasive or changing the topic when you ask her something important, it could be a sign that
3. She Will Not Commit to Long-Term Plans (or Short-Term)
If an Aries woman is not interested in you, she won’t commit to future plans.
This is a classic sign that a girl or a guy is playing you and is something you should take note of.
Whether you’re trying to book a holiday with them or are asking about marriage and life plans, if they won’t commit to anything it’s a red flag.
4. She Blows Hot and Cold on You
Another classic sign someone is giving you the runaround and is probably playing you is when they blow hot and cold.
Some women do this as a way of testing out their power and seeing how you’ll respond.
If an Aries woman is sending you mixed messages and jumping from hot to cold quickly, it’s a good sign she’s playing you.
Even if she’s not playing you, I’m sure you’ll agree that it’s not the kind of reception you want from someone you care for!
5. She Is Always Canceling Plans on You
If an Aries woman is constantly canceling plans on you or making excuses for why she can’t meet up, then it’s a sign that you’re not a priority.
Even if it’s little things and she seems to have a good excuse, it says a lot about how committed she is to you.
Something I always remind myself is that if something is important to someone, they’ll always find a way to make it happen!
6. She Asks a Lot of You But Doesn’t Give Much Back
Players always end up taking a lot more than they give, no matter how hard to try to maintain a cover.
Aries women are strong and independent, so if they’re always asking you for favors or help but are never willing to give anything back in return, then it goes against their zodiac sign.
7. She Hasn’t Introduced You to Her Family
If a woman is playing you, then she’s unlikely to introduce you to her family or friends.
Aries women value their independence and privacy, so unless she’s serious about you, she won’t want to include family in her life.
This is something that might take time, but you’d expect her to introduce you to the people who are important to her.
8. You Really Don’t Know Much About Her
It’s always worth taking a step back and asking ourselves how much we really know about someone we’re seeing, no matter how serious the relationship is.
If you don’t know much about her and she’s not letting you get close, it might be because she’s playing you.
Players keep people at an arm’s length, the closer people get the more chance there is of them falling for someone.
Related – 10 tips to make an Aries woman obsessed with you!
9. The Harder You Try the More She Backs Off
This goes hand-in-hand with not being able to get close to her. If she also backs off every time you push forward, she’s not ready to commit.
This is one of the most frustrating experiences that come with being played, and it’s a good sign you should back off too.
10. Her Friends Aren’t Welcoming to You
If her friends aren’t welcoming when you meet them, it could be a sign that she’s not serious about you.
When an Aries woman meets someone she likes, they’ll be the life of the party and will make sure their friends are friendly and welcoming.
If that’s not the case, it sounds like they know more about her intentions than you do and are protecting themselves or her.
11. She’s More Affectionate when You’re Alone
Aries women are full of energy and have no problems showing affection for their partners.
So, if an Aries woman you’re interested in is more affectionate when you’re alone, it could be a sign that she doesn’t want the world to know about your relationship.
This is an unmistakable sign she’s playing you and it’s probably time to move on.
12. She Won’t Go to Certain Places/Areas
It should always raise your suspicion when someone won’t visit certain places or areas, especially if you’re in a relationship with them.
If an Aries woman – or any woman – is doing this and always making excuses, it’s a sign that she’s hiding something or not being completely honest with you.
Without trust, you don’t have the basis of a healthy relationship, so it might be time to call it off.
13. She’s Flirty With Other Guys in Front of You
This is a huge sign of disrespect and always feels bad, but more than that it probably means she is playing you or has less than honorable intentions.
Aries women know how to be flirty and use their charm, but if they’re doing it in front of you it’s a sign they’re either not into you or not serious about your relationship.
14. You Don’t Know Where She Is or What She’s Doing at Times
You shouldn’t – and don’t have to – know where your partner is at all times, but there also shouldn’t be periods of time where you have no idea and they won’t tell you.
If an Aries woman is avoiding giving you details about her whereabouts and won’t tell you what she’s doing, it’s a sign she is probably up to things she knows you wouldn’t be happy about.
15. You Can Feel It in Your Gut
At the end of the day, you should always listen to your gut feeling.
If something feels off and you don’t feel like you can trust her, it’s probably because you can’t.
Trust your instincts and don’t be afraid to back off if there are too many red flags.
I’m not suggesting you jump to any wild conclusions, but you should always be mindful of how you’re being treated and not accept anything less than the respect you deserve.
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Phil lives in England, UK, and has around 20 years experience as a professional life, career and executive coach. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future.