What do Pakistani guys find attractive in a woman?
When answering this question, it’s important to remember that every guy is unique and has their own preferences of what they find attractive in a woman.
That said, culturally there are some consistencies when it comes to what most Pakistani guys find attractive in a partner:
What Do Pakistani Guys Find Attractive? (10 Key Things)
1. Physical Attractiveness (To Them)
Let’s start with the most obvious point; every guy has his own preferred type and physical attractiveness is going to catch his eye.
If you’re interested in a Pakistani guy, I can’t tell you what he’s looking for as everyone has their own preferences when it comes to type.
You’re going to have to ask him!
Related – Here is what Korean guys find attractive!
Confidence is a very attractive personality trait, and it’s typically very important to Pakistani guys.
Not the kind of brash, outwardly cocky kind of confidence, but rather a quiet confidence that shows you are sure of yourself, and your abilities.
Again, this is another attribute that can be both attractive and intimidating. So, it’s important that you know what a guy is looking for and act accordingly.
But overall, a guy is going to be more attracted to a woman who is intelligent and can hold an interesting conversation for sure.
4. Kindness and Compassion
Similar to intelligence, kindness, and compassion are also very attractive traits. Pakistani guys tend to appreciate women who can show affection and care for them and their families, even in the smallest ways.
5. Sense of Humor
Pakistani men are known for having a good sense of humor and enjoying banter back and forth when flirting and getting to know a woman better.
Their sense of humor tends to be more like mild insults and sarcasm than what some people consider “being funny”.
It depends on the guy, but if you’re paying attention I’m sure you’ll pick up on what kind of sense of humor he has.
6. A Warm and Friendly Personality
Who doesn’t find a warm and friendly personality an attractive and alluring trait?
Pakistani guys are no different and they too appreciate a woman who can be warm, friendly, and welcoming.
7. A Positive Attitude
Achieving success in life and relationships is much easier when you have a positive attitude.
This kind of outlook on life will certainly be attractive to a Pakistani guy, especially when it comes to more serious relationships.
I appreciate it’s not something you can create or change overnight if you’re not a positive thinker, but it’s certainly something you can work on.
It’ll help you in all aspects of life and relationships if you do, too.
Family is incredibly important in Pakistan culture, so it’s no surprise that Pakistani guys are looking for women who are family-oriented.
This means someone who values and respects their family and is also willing to be committed and supportive of their partner’s family.
9. Traditional Values
Pakistani traditional values is something that men look for in a woman and are often seen as attractive, such as being humble, respectful, and loyal to their friends and family.
These are traits that a lot of Pakistani guys appreciate in a woman, so it’s important to remember if you’re interested in a Pakistani guy.
10. Shared Interests
Shared interests are always important in a relationship, and are particularly important during the dating phase when you’re trying to get to know someone better.
Having shared interests allows you to have fun and stimulating conversations, enjoy pastimes together, and create a strong bond.
So, if you can find some common interests with a guy you’re interested in, it’s something he’s going to find attractive about you and will help you engage in conversation.
How Do You Know When A Pakistani Guy Likes You?
If you’ve been talking to a Pakistani guy and you’re not sure if he likes you or not (and don’t want to ask him), just look for some of the classic signs!
It’s important to remember that everyone expresses their feelings differently and it’s not always easy to know for sure what someone is thinking or feeling.
But with that in mind, here are a few key things you should look for:
- Does the guy seem to be making an effort to get to know you better? This means asking you questions about yourself, trying to find common interests, spending time with you, etc.
- Is he willing to make time for you? If a guy is interested in you, he will be willing to rearrange his schedule to spend time with you, whether that’s making plans in advance or being spontaneous.
- Does he make physical contact with you? Physical touch (in the right way) is almost certainly a sign of interest, this could be anything like a playful touch on the arm or shoulder or throwing out a high-five.
- Does he compliment you and make you smile? If a guy is clearly trying to compliment you, and if you feel yourself blush or smile, he likes you and you’re enjoying the attention.
- Does he remember little details about you? This is always one of the biggest giveaways that a guy is interested and is paying super close attention. If he remembers little details, he’s interested.
Again, it’s important to remember that everyone expresses their feelings differently, and it can certainly be hard to figure some guys out.
But if you’re seeing one or more of the above signs, it’s definitely a sign that he likes you, it’s just a matter of how much!
If you’re still unsure, it’s always best to just come out and say something to the guy.
It’s never an easy conversation to have, but if you have a strong feeling he likes you and you like him, you’ll be kicking yourself if you don’t!
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Phil lives in England, UK, and has around 20 years experience as a professional life, career and executive coach. He started this blog to help others find and define their own self development journey. Blogging about a wide range of topics to help facilitate a better future.